the first anniversary alone

A gift for a widow on her wedding anniversary

The date arrives whether or not anyone mentions it. A song written from their marriage — how they met, the in-joke, the years — says you remembered, without asking her to talk about it.

A couple dancing together at home
why this date is harder

An anniversary belongs to two people

Birthdays and Christmas are collective — there are other people in the room, and the day carries itself. A wedding anniversary belongs to two people. When one of them is gone, the date can pass with nobody saying anything at all.

That silence is usually the hard part. Not the grief, which she expects, but the sense that the marriage has stopped being a thing anyone else remembers.

A song about their marriage — the specific one, not marriage in general — is a way of saying I know what today is, and handing her something rather than asking her a question.

Details that make this song land
  • How they met, and the year
  • What he called her
  • Something they did every week without fail
  • The hardest year, and how they got through it
  • How long they were married

Who sends it. Most often a son or daughter, sometimes a friend who knows the date and knows nobody else will mention it. It works the same way for a widower.

how it works

Three steps, no music experience

1

Tell us the story

A few details on the request form — names, a memory, what this person means to you. About two minutes.

2

Hear it free

We send back a 20-second preview built from your story, so you know it's right before you spend anything.

3

Get the full song

The finished track within 24 hours — MP3 and WAV, a lyric sheet and a lyric video, with one revision. Full song $49, lyrics only $19.

Hear a finished OdaSongs song →

A song for their anniversary

Tell us about the two of them. You'll get a free 20-second preview, and decide from there.

Request your song →
No card required · full song $49 · lyrics only $19